The huswife's guide to

Here in Canada, Thanksgiving came and went in October, and Black Friday has always been an American thing. We get Boxing Day sales instead. Over the past few year's we've also been lucky enough to get Cyber Monday sales over here. This year is different - not only will I be a short 3 hours from Fargo this year for these sales, but almost everywhere major retailer in Canada is offering some kind of Black Friday deals. Granted, they're not quite the same as the states, and we certainly won't get as many interesting trampling stories, but half priced EXPEDIT shelves from IKEA is very tempting. But of course, I'm on a budget so...

Black Friday is the "official" start to holiday shopping. Here in Canada we've been thinking Christmas since November 12th, out Neighbours to the South had to wait to give thanks. Now that they're so appreciative of what they have, it's time to go shopping! Seems kind of wacked to me, but then again, so is the Canadian "we just got a bunch of presents yesterday let's go shopping!" Boxing Day mentality. I typically only pick up wrapping paper the odd Christmas decoration for next year, but I digress. Black Friday occurs at a time of year where we're all motivated to buy.

You don't even need to be close to the stores to shop. Online retails offer free shipping and insane discounts with no lines. Most places have started posting deals this week to get you to order now, then again on Friday. They want your money.

So this year while you're being bombarded by the awesome sales and Black Friday marketing, remember these questions:

1. Do I really need this?
If the answer is yes, it's a real need, then maybe it's a good time to buy. Half priced mittens if you kid doesn't have any is a fantastic deal. If you already have three pairs it's a waste.

2. How badly do I want it (or will they want it if it's a gift)
If you don't need it move on to this.

3. What will have to sacrifice to get this?
Space? Money you don't have? Work more? Dinner out?

4. What will happen if I don't get this?
Usually nothing.

Just because the sales are short term, think about everything you're buying! Don't let the pursuit of stuff get in the way of your goals.

Better yet, don't shop at all. Don't look. Just spend time with your family.